It was 6 months ago yesterday that I saw that elusive postive test. 6 months. It seems like it was just last month. I think I have grown some since then. This month marks 4 years of trying. 4 long years. I cant believe that I could have a 3.5 year old if we had gotten pregnant on that first cycle. That just blows my mind. I know it will be all worth the wait, im just tired of waiting. I think I have done my fair share.
I have made some great friends because of the loss. Some I hope that I never have to do without. I hate the way we were brought together, the common-ness of lossing what we longed for the most. But, we are together, slowly pushing through. I am glad I have them in my corner. I really don't know what I would do without them.
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Monday, November 21, 2011
Friday, June 10, 2011
If you are healing from the loss of a child..
Someone on my pregnancy loss board, posted this today. I think it is very inspirational and well written. I just wanted to say Thanks to "cowgirl"for sharing with us.
If you are healing from the loss of a child
If you are healing from the loss of a child and you get out of bed in the
morning,
You are doing well.
If you healing from the loss of a child
and you hold down a job,
You are amazing.
If you are healing from the
loss of a child and and you are still remotely pleasant to others,
You are a
lot nicer than me.
If you are healing from the loss of a child and you
cannot always be there for a friend,
You are still a good friend and a strong
enough person to know what is best for you.
If you are healing from
the loss of a child and you cry daily or have nightmares,
You are normal.
If you are healing from the loss of a child and seeing
happy, healthy pregnant women makes you sad, angry, jealous and worse,
Join the club
If you are healing from the loss of a child and think
that what happened was your fault,
you are wrong, but you are not
alone.
If you are healing from the loss of a child and feel like your
significant other truly understands and is 100% supportive,
He or she is rare
and a keeper.
If you are healing from the loss of a child and you have a
good support system,
It will help A LOT.
If you are healing from the
loss of a child and feel painfully alone and isolated,
Please know that there
are thousands of people healing with you in spirit.
If you are healing
from the loss of a child but still looking to the future,
you are a survivor
If you are healing from the loss of a child
If you are healing from the loss of a child and you get out of bed in the
morning,
You are doing well.
If you healing from the loss of a child
and you hold down a job,
You are amazing.
If you are healing from the
loss of a child and and you are still remotely pleasant to others,
You are a
lot nicer than me.
If you are healing from the loss of a child and you
cannot always be there for a friend,
You are still a good friend and a strong
enough person to know what is best for you.
If you are healing from
the loss of a child and you cry daily or have nightmares,
You are normal.
If you are healing from the loss of a child and seeing
happy, healthy pregnant women makes you sad, angry, jealous and worse,
Join the club
If you are healing from the loss of a child and think
that what happened was your fault,
you are wrong, but you are not
alone.
If you are healing from the loss of a child and feel like your
significant other truly understands and is 100% supportive,
He or she is rare
and a keeper.
If you are healing from the loss of a child and you have a
good support system,
It will help A LOT.
If you are healing from the
loss of a child and feel painfully alone and isolated,
Please know that there
are thousands of people healing with you in spirit.
If you are healing
from the loss of a child but still looking to the future,
you are a survivor
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